We cant choose who we love and what trauma they come with, what parasites, but we can choose how, what trauma of theirs we take on, what transference, and we can decide to let the experience be an adventure instead of a punishment, and we can dismiss anyone who thinks they arent infested with the poison of other peoples wills, or worms and flukes and fungus dulling their emotions and intelligence until all interaction seems like a competition for resources in abject scarcity consciousness, we can tell them no one is exempt and that love is knowing when to cleanse that out, as well as when to face it and let it be, before an inability to face the demons you carry comes to define your identity
So for his 50th birthday, he gave the director a very special surprise present
For instance, a hypnotherapist may have you recall a time when you were smoke-free and connect that memory to a touch on your wrist (creating an anchor)
You can pick worms off my tobacco crop
But, you may ask, How in the world do you grow tobacco